Welcome to Melbourne, darling! Australia’s cosmopolitan queen of culture isn’t just about laneways, incredible coffee, and fabulous art galleries—it’s also a pulsating hotspot for LGBTQ+ travellers ready to live their best life. Known for its vibrant queer scene, world-class food, and chic accommodations for all budgets and styles, this is your ultimate guide to experience “Gay Melbourne”.
From touching down in the city to sipping cocktails in an iconic gay bar, here’s everything you need to know to make your visit in Melbourne as fabulous as possible.
Arriving in Melbourne and Getting to the City
Touchdown glamour awaits you at Melbourne Airport (Tullamarine). You can arrive in style with these easy transportation options:
- SkyBus: A convenient (not so glamorous but hey a good price) and affordable way to get to Melbourne’s CBD. Buses run every 10 minutes (fare starts at AUD $22).
- Taxi or Uber: It’s around a 20- to 30-minute ride into the city (approx. $60-$70, but we warned of public holiday surcharges; we paid $120 on the meter on a public holiday, so be warned people!) for a taxi or $45-$55 via Uber).
- Car Rentals: For queens wanting to explore beyond Melbourne, car rentals are available, but beware—Melbourne traffic might steal your thunder.
Getting Around Melbourne
Once you’re in the city, the best way to explore is by hopping on a tram. Melbourne’s iconic trams are a free and efficient way to get around the CBD. We found the city tram network confusing for the first day as there is so much jumbled info online. We were quite confused on what was a free tram, be it the historic tram that comes through every 40 mins or so, or every tram?
Long story short, all the trams are free in the city centre. There is no need to tap on or off and the “free” trams run around the city circuit. There are also announcements on the tram when you are about to leave the free zone – so no need to worry!
For longer trips, use ride-share apps or the Myki card to access trains and buses. And for short distances, throw on your sleekest sneakers and walk the laneways—it’s where you’ll find Melbourne’s magic (and its gay-friendly hidden gems!).
We found Uber the best solution to get around in the evening in areas outside the CBD, but found the best way to get around was on foot to discover the city and hidden spots.
Top 5 Gay Hotels in Melbourne To Explore
Here are our top picks for the perfect place to rest, recharge, and get your pre-drinks on: Melbourne’s glittering skyline isn’t the only thing that dazzles—this chic city is the home to some amazing Gay Hotels in Melbourne perfect for the gay traveller in Melbourne. Whether you’re here to werk, play, or slay, these hotels will have you basking in unapologetic style and elegance at our pick of gay hotels in Melbourne.
Sofitel Melbourne
Oh la la, sophistication dripping from every corner! The Sofitel Melbourne on Collins isn’t just a place to stay, it’s a full-throttle luxury experience. Picture yourself sipping French champagne while gazing at the Melbourne skyline that never quits. Their suites? Think Parisian chic with a Melbourne twist—sexy, sleek, and oh-so-fabulous. Plus, you’re just a heel-click away from the Theatre District. Fancy a dramatic night out? Mais oui!
The Canvas Hotel
The Canvas Hotel is perfect for those wanting an apartment-style hotel in an amazing location to discover Melbournes. Very comfortable one-bedroom apartments with full facilities in the room, including everything you need in a fully stocked kitchen to cook up a feast! With splashes of colour, avant-garde furnishings, and a vibe that screams “Instagram me!”, you’ll feel like you’ve stepped into a gallery of fabulosity. Bonus points for its location: step out the door and be at Spencer Street Tram station and also near Docklands.
The Jazz Corner Hotel
Forget checking in—at The Jazz Corner Hotel, you’re about to “check your groove”! This place oozes seductive energy with its bold interiors and nods to iconic jazz legends. Whether you’re bebopping to the city’s gay venues or staying in for a glass of Shiraz overlooking Flagstaff Gardens, The Jazz Corner promises a swingin’ good time. Pro tip? Don’t miss live jazz sessions—it’s impossible not to feel utterly fabulous while tapping your heels to the rhythm.
Brady Hotels Jones Lane
Subtle yet sophisticated, Brady Hotels Jones Lane is for the minimalist queens who love clean lines and no-fuss luxe. Tucked away in Melbourne’s vibrant laneways (yes, Melbourne’s heartbeat), it’s intimate, effortlessly cool, and close enough to the action without overwhelming your senses. Think of it as your chic urban sanctuary when you need to recharge your sparkle before jumping into the city’s gay nightlife extravaganza.
The Cullen Melbourne – Art Series
Unleash your arty, cheeky side at The Cullen, a hotel that serves flamboyance on a palette of bold colours and contemporary flair. Inspired by Adam Cullen’s unapologetically edgy art, this place is as daring as it is dashing. Sip an espresso martini amidst daring prints, join an artist-led tour, or just strut through the hallways like it’s your personal runway. This is where sexy, cultured travellers come to play—and darling, you’re it.
Melbourne is a haven for the glamorous, the adventurous, and the fabulous. These stays aren’t just places to lay your head—they’re destinations to live your best, most unapologetically queer life. Book your stay and prepare to own the city like the star you are!
Dining in Melbourne: Top Picks for Foodies
No trip to Melbourne is complete without indulging in its culinary delights. Here’s our pick of where to wine and dine like the queen you are for all budgets and experiences:
Nomad Restaurant
For an unforgettable dining experience, Nomad delivers on every front – for us this was the highlight of Melbourne for us!. This spot specialises in modern Australian cuisine with a delightful Middle Eastern twist, making it perfect for special occasions. The ambience is warm and inviting, yet sophisticated enough for a romantic evening or an indulgent dinner with someone equally as fabulous—like your “glam-ma.” Their menu boasts inventive dishes made with high-quality ingredients, ensuring every bite is a burst of flavour. This is world-class dining at its finest, and we rate this as one of the top 5 restaurants we have dined in globally. See Our Experience Here
Tip: Try their signature small plates to share and pair them with a bold Australian wine or splurge. It’s only money and has the ultimate set menu package with wine, you won’t regret it if you’re a foodie!
Mercedes Me Cafe
A modern and funky cafe in Collins Street, where mornings start with top-tier coffee and equally spectacular breakfast offerings. Inspired by the decadence synonymous with the Mercedes brand, this cafe provides a polished yet comfortable space, ideal for business meetings or treating yourself on an ordinary weekday. While the prices may lean towards the higher side, the quality and presentation justify the splurge. Great breakfast’s for when your travelling and even better coffee. See our Full Experience Here
Tip: Their pastries are amazing—don’t skip the almond croissant.
GING THAI (Crown Casino)
Aussie-style Thai at GING THAI. Located in the glamorous Crown Casino, this chic restaurant fuses bold Thai flavours with an Australian influence, so if you’re looking for authentic Thai then this is not the place, but what they do serve is of great quality in a cool environment. Expect vibrant curries, perfectly spiced stir-fries (for Aussies), and creative sharing plates. The trendy, modern interiors and classy vibe offer the perfect backdrop whether you’re celebrating, catching up with friends, or simply indulging in your love asian food. See Our Full Experience Here
DOJU
Affordable, tasty, and wonderfully unpretentious, DOJU is a crowd-pleaser for dinner without the fuss. This hotspot is ideal for a casual night out where you don’t want to compromise on flavor—or break the bank. The menu offers a satisfying selection of dishes made for hearty, enjoyable meals. Whether you’re grabbing a quick bite before heading elsewhere, or settling in for a laid-back feast, DOJU delivers just what you need.
Tip: The gyoza is a must-try—crispy, savory, and oh-so-flavorful.
SOHO Restaurant
For an Instagram-worthy night out, SOHO Restaurant checks every box. Fabulous vibes? Check. Impeccable food? Double-check. With its stylish presentation and contemporary menu, SOHO makes dining a full sensory experience. The energy picks up in the evenings, making this the perfect spot for small groups or a chic date night. The dishes range from simple, elegant fare to adventurous flavor combinations, ensuring something for every palate.
Tip: Snap up their cocktails against the trendy backdrop for a picture-perfect post.
Saving Grace
Set in the heart of Melbourne, Saving Grace is a chic bar with a lively atmosphere and some of the best cocktails in the CBD. A go-to spot for after-work drinks or a weekend pick-me-up, this place knows how to balance style with substance. It was one of our favourite bars in the CBD. The bar menu isn’t just an afterthought, with excellent snacks and bites (because great cocktails deserve great food). It’s easy to see why this venue is popular among locals and visitors alike.
Tip: Order their signature cocktail—it’s as delicious as it is aesthetic.
Royal Melbourne Hotel
For a more laid-back and relaxing experience, the Royal Melbourne Hotel stands out as a fantastic spot to escape the city’s buzz. With hearty bistro-style meals and cold beers at unbeatable value, it’s your go-to for comfort food done right. The relaxed atmosphere invites you to unwind, whether you’re meeting friends, grabbing a quick meal, or simply indulging in some seriously satisfying eats. See Our Full Experience Here
Tip: Burger lovers rejoice! Their burgers are generous, juicy, and loaded with flavour or try the oversized schnitzel and see if you can finish it!
Bon Appétit!
From indulgent dining to quick bites and stylish drinks, Melbourne’s CBD offers options for every occasion and mood. Whether you’re in the mood for world-class meals at Nomad or kicking back with a beer at the Royal Melbourne Hotel, the city’s culinary scene is ready to impress. Be sure to check these spots out and enjoy your next foodie adventure!
Attractions to Visit While Slaying in Melbourne
Beyond fabulous gay bars, Melbourne is packed with attractions to fill your itinerary. Here are our must-visit spots:
Crown Casino
Whether you’re a high roller or simply looking for an unforgettable night out, Crown Casino in Melbourne delivers an experience that exudes luxury and excitement. Try your hand at the tables, enjoy the endless array of slot machines, or simply soak up the opulent atmosphere. Beyond the gaming floor, Crown offers a world of entertainment—take your pick from upscale dining establishments, live music performances, and spirited nightclubs. And if relaxation is more your style, indulge in their luxurious spa or enjoy the dazzling Crown Riverwalk fountain show. A visit to Crown Casino is as much about spectacle and glamour as it is about winning big.
ACMI (Australian Centre for the Moving Image) Museum
For film buffs or lovers of storytelling, ACMI Museum is an absolute must-see in Melbourne. Dedicated to celebrating the world of film, television, video games, and digital culture, ACMI offers a dynamic exploration into media across the ages. Their interactive exhibits guide you through cinematic history, highlighting iconic moments in Australian and global screen culture. Visitors can create their own animated sequences, explore groundbreaking VR experiences, or immerse themselves in curated film screenings. ACMI combines education and entertainment, making it a great destination for families, creatives, and media enthusiasts alike.
Da Vinci Exhibit at LUME
Step into the mind of a genius with the Da Vinci Exhibit at LUME—a visual feast like no other. This immersive experience brings the brilliance of Leonardo da Vinci to life through awe-inspiring projections and interactive displays. Walk alongside life-size reproductions of da Vinci’s famous inventions, admire his art projected on massive walls, and engage with his groundbreaking work in science and engineering. The multi-sensory elements transport visitors into the Renaissance era, making it more than just an exhibit—it’s an unforgettable journey through the legacy of one of history’s most innovative minds.
Melbourne Aquarium
Dive into another world at the Melbourne Aquarium, where underwater magic awaits. Meet sharks, rays, jellyfish, and the world’s tiniest penguins as you wind through spectacular zones, each filled with magnificent marine creatures. Whether you’re on the “Ocean Walk” or marveling at the swaying sea jellies, the exhibits are nothing short of enchanting. A particular standout is the 360-degree underwater tunnel—a walk through here feels like a front-row seat to nature’s most extraordinary drag performance, each sea creature strutting their stuff in dazzling style. It’s equal parts education and entertainment for all ages.
The Royal Botanic Gardens
Nestled right in the heart of the city, Melbourne’s Royal Botanic Gardens are a tranquil haven for locals and travelers alike. With perfectly manicured lawns and picturesque gardens that stretch along the Yarra River, this is the ideal place to unwind. Bring a picnic, curl up in the shade of towering trees, or simply stroll the pathways to admire rare plants and seasonal blooms. Whether you’re stretching out, birdwatching, or channeling your inner diva as you sashay through the serene landscapes, the gardens offer a slice of zen that’s hard to beat. Don’t forget to check out the Aboriginal Heritage Walk, which provides insights into the cultural significance of the gardens.
Discovering Gay Melbourne
Melbourne’s gay scene is serving iconic realness, darling. This fabulous city has a vibe that’s hard to resist—though it’s not exactly a 24/7 playground. Much like Sydney, many of the gay venues have embraced a more selective schedule, opening only on certain days or for special events (and yes, sadly, some even ghost on event nights like Melbourne Cup much to our disappointment when there!). But don’t fret! Grab your best heels and fiercest outfit because we’ve got the lowdown on where to strut your stuff.
Gay Bars
The Laird (Abbotsford)
Time to don your flannel, stroke your (imaginary or very real) beard, and head to The Laird, Melbourne’s unapologetically rugged haven for bears and the boys who love them. Step into this sanctuary of masculine charm and feel the timber-lined walls practically hum “channel your inner lumberjack.” Whether you’re here to grab a beer, lock eyes across the bar, or revel in the kind of camaraderie that only exists in a space so authentic, The Laird never disappoints. It’s as much about the vibe as it is about the community—welcoming, grounded, and almost annoyingly charming. Perfect for those nights when your Grindr grid just isn’t giving.
Must-try vibe: Steamy conversations over seriously good craft beers or a cheeky Sunday session that feels oh-so right.
Website: The Laird
Pride of Our Footscray (Footscray)
Darling, “inclusive” doesn’t even begin to scratch the surface with Pride of Our Footscray. This electric little gem is where the heart of Melbourne’s west beats loud and proud. It’s not just a bar; it’s an unapologetic celebration. Think eclectic decor, warm, welcoming faces, and drag performances that slap harder than your ex’s bad decisions. Whether you’re sipping on a gin and tonic or letting loose on the dance floor, this venue radiates community and love. The vibe? Fabulous meets grounded—the kind of place where you can be yourself, no judgy glances allowed.
Must-try vibe: Dancing your heart out to queer anthems whilst simultaneously discussing the best brunch spots with a new queer bestie.
Website: Pride of Our Footscray
Sircuit Bar (Fitzroy)
Oh honey, welcome to the jungle. Sircuit Bar in Fitzroy is where Melbourne’s queer nightlife truly comes alive. This dance spot is pulsating, flirtatious, and absolutely dreamy—one of those places where locking eyes across the room seems scripted by a Rom-Com writer. The cocktails? Sensational. The crowd? Flawless. The music? Beats that’ll have you working up a sweat in the best possible way. If you’re looking to dance, flirt, and mingle with a diverse and vibrant crowd, look no further. At Sircuit, you’re not just having a night out, darling—you’re having a moment.
Must-try vibe: Spirited dancing that ranges from Britney classics to fresh house beats, with plenty of flirtation on the sidelines.
Website: Sircuit Bar
The Peel Hotel (Collingwood)
Now, this icon needs no introduction. The Peel Hotel is Melbourne’s gay nightlife institution—a neon-lit altar to fabulousness that’s designed for your after-party fever dreams. The dance floor is electric (prepare for bodies-ody-ody moves for days), the drinks are free-flowing, and the crowd? Oh, they know how to werk. From pop bangers to sultry R&B jams, the beats here will guide you into the early hours, and—if you’re lucky—you might even find yourself cuddled up with a dancefloor romance. Collingwood’s crown jewel indeed.
Must-try vibe: The ultimate sweaty, sensual, and unrestrained post-midnight dance-off. Just don’t forget to hydrate between boogies.
Website: The Peel Hotel
POOF DOOF (Locations Vary)
If “pop-up extravaganza” doesn’t already excite your stylish little brain, then prepare to buckle up, babes. POOF DOOF is the party that travels wherever it wants, bringing with it drag stars, throbbing DJ beats, and more glitter than your rainbow soul could dream. Each “doof” is like stepping into a kaleidoscopic wonderland of queer euphoria. It’s high-energy, unapologetically fabulous, and just a little bit cheeky. Prepare for jaw-dropping performances, a sea of smiling faces, and beats that’ll vibrate through your bones. Wherever it pops up, you need to be there.
Must-try vibe: Dancing under a sky of glitter confetti while belting out an 80s pop icon chorus with total strangers.
Website: POOF DOOF
Gay Sauna & Massage
Darling, whether you’re looking to relax, mingle, or surrender to some sumptuous self-care, Melbourne’s sauna scene is serving heat—and not just from the steam rooms. From intimate massages in the CBD to sprawling spaces that welcome the queer community with open arms (and a towel), here’s your guide to three fabulous hotspots.
Subway Sauna (South Yarra)
Tucked away in the chic heart of South Yarra, Subway Sauna is where sophistication meets steamy relaxation. A favorite among discerning locals, this urban retreat is all about fabulous facilities and the perfect balance of downtime and conversation. Can we talk about the steam room? It’s hotter than a gossip session at brunch.
With clean, modern amenities and a vibe that feels welcoming yet intimate, Subway Sauna is where you go to treat yourself. Lounge in the sauna, make a splash in the spa pool, or sip a cheeky beverage while mingling in the social areas. The clientele? Polished, diverse, and oh-so-charming—perfect for a cheeky chat or simply an admiring glance. Whether you’re in it for the relaxation or the socialising, Subway will have you melting (in the best way possible).
Wet on Wellington (Collingwood)
Step into Wet on Wellington, Melbourne’s reigning queen of gay saunas. Located in Collingwood, it’s the city’s largest spot of its kind—and it doesn’t skimp the space. This venue is as modern as it gets with sleek designs, plenty of room to mingle, and some sizzling weekly events. If you’re wondering where all the action happens, darlings, you’ve found it.
Hot tubs, private rooms, a massive sauna, AND a pool? Plus, their iconic events are a vibe—think drag queens, DJ beats, and a crowd that knows how to werk it. It’s truly a pulsating haven for the gay community, and whether you’re looking to relax, spice up your evening, or just bask in Melbourne’s gay sauna culture, Wet on Wellington serves it all on a rainbow platter.
The Male Therapist — Remedial Massage & Sauna (Melbourne CBD)
If your body is screaming for sweet release (and we mean your sore muscles, darling), The Male Therapist has the remedy. Nestled in the CBD, this spa delivers a professional yet sensual experience that’s all about making you feel like royalty.
While it’s a smaller, more personal experience compared to the sprawling saunas, this space focuses on the art of touch. The skilled therapists practically have magic hands, working their way through every knot with elegance and ease. Add the sauna to the mix, and you’ve got the perfect setup for indulgence. This isn’t a place for flirty mingling—it’s about deep relaxation, one-on-one pampering, and walking away feeling like a brand-new you.
Final Thoughts on Gay Melbourne
Melbourne, darling, is a city that calls every gay traveler to live proudly, indulgently, and fabulously. From decadent dining to sizzling nightlife, it offers a delectable cocktail of experiences to sip on. But—and here’s the tea, sweeties—post-COVID, the city can sometimes feel like it’s taken a little nap compared to its global siblings in Europe or Asia.
Over a recent public holiday, we sashayed out in search of Melbourne’s famed gay scene, only to find many spots closed, including bars and clubs. It’s clear the city isn’t serving seven-days-a-week escapades like some of its international counterparts. But with the right intel (and perhaps a little pre-planning to hit the hotspots when they’re open), there’s still plenty of fun to be had.
Now, let’s talk about the surprise costs lurking like uninvited party guests. Saturday surcharges at bars? A cheeky 3% credit card fee for food and drinks—even when cash isn’t accepted? Darling, Melbourne’s surcharge culture is definitely a thing, and not just in queer spaces. To be fair, Sydney has dabbled in this, too, though Melbourne does seem to be leading the charge.
That said, despite the logistical quirks, Melbourne still knows how to deliver a good time. Plan wisely, sprinkle a little glitter, and you’ll find this city still has plenty of fabulous moments worth exploring.
Pack your glitter, book a stay at a fabulous gay hotel in Melbourne, and start planning the itinerary of a lifetime. Need help crafting the perfect trip? Share this guide and tag your travel squad! Time to slay, darling.
